Want respect, friendship, your child would like it shared secret with you - become themselves to him a friend, the greatest authority, respected man. How? And there are no ready-made recipes. One certainly: Love of parents for the child to be active. This means that should happen more often with him, together attending movies, theater, concerts, art exhibitions, music, lectures, walks, tours, hiking, anything with enthusiasm to build, simulate, collect, read and discuss read, draw it to the solving economic problems and so on. If this father and mother will be attentive and friendly to his friends and girlfriends son or daughter (well, if they are familiar with, and even better - good friends with their parents) - the child will respond to them sincere affection, respect and love.
Family education includes management of the child, adolescent, youth, providing 'assistance to the child in all spheres of life. And this assistance is needed constantly, every day. That kid went to school for the first time. In a matter of 2-3 years it is changing: There is a rapid physical and mental development, and enriched the world of the senses, expand communication with the surrounding reality of the child.
Teaching - the basic student work that requires effort to overcome the difficulties. And to master them, the child needs the help of elders in the leadership from both the school and family. In many schools, primary school teachers spend so-called parenting workshops, visiting them; parents have specific knowledge about how to organize the training of school children at home, what should be his job, daily routine, excluding shipment and include all forms of work and rest.
Only the teacher knows the child's individual characteristics, can give specific advice to parents and teach them how to verify compliance with their homework in arithmetic and language, how to conduct
Home reading, how to help your child learn to keep pace with good and meaningful holiday.
Have much to teach the children in the family: Education and the will and ability to dispose of his time and needs to benefit, to be kind, attentive, responsive, and the desire to become a cultured person. One way to this - to involve children in reading. Unfortunately, they often question the teacher, "What the child reads. And like I have to read? "Many parents are forced to admit that their children do not read a book or do not like that they are addicted only adventure literature.
How to instill in children a culture of reading? Much can be done in this regard, helping a son or daughter to collect a library, advising them to read certain books, and then read them discussing the need. It was a conversation about books - one of the surest ways to not only know about the experiences, dreams and aspirations of the child, but to win his respect and trust. |